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What makes a good Newsvine friend?

Mon Dec 27, 2010 11:57 AM EST
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We got the box set of all three Toy Story movies for Christmas, and of course we had to watch all three in a row. Naturally I have 'you've got a friend in me' stuck firmly in my head, and I'll probably need to see a psychiatrist to get it un-stuck.

One of the most fun parts of Newsvine is making new friends. I love reading what each of my friends write on their own columns, and the feedback I receive from them on mine. To me a good newsvine friend is someone who takes interest in what I have to say, and who can converse about whichever given topic and put their own twist on it. I really appreciate the friends who give tips, advice, and encouragement when the situation warrants.

So what is it that inspires you to send or accept a friend request?

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KYPIAKOC

What makes a good friend on NV?

    Reply#1 - Mon Dec 27, 2010 11:58 AM EST
    ERich-356044

    Mornin friend!!

    I friend people if I like what they say. This means most of my friends are liberal! (lol)

    I have a few conservative friends.... only had to de-friend one person, and they posted an article about how childish it was. I just got tired of being spoken to poorly by disagreeing with that person.

    A few friends on the vine have become friends in the real world, and I care for them a lot. Friends are wonderful, and those that have left the vine are missed dearly by me. (Hekofawoman is one...)

    A few of them have found me on Facebook and so I continue that friendship there....

    E

    *ps... now I have that song in my head.... thanks! :)

    • 1 vote
    #1.1 - Mon Dec 27, 2010 12:05 PM EST
    KYPIAKOC

    Mornin! Conflicting political views have been known to blow up quite often around here, so I can see where you're coming from. I suppose I'm a little more left leaning than right, but I don't really consider myself either or. I really enjoy a good cool argument with someone who has the opposite viewpoint, but it's not that comon that you find Viners who really want to discuss politics with me. It's usually more of "I'm right, so there" which doen't interest me. I think most of my friends tend to leave politics alone, although if a good debate rises, count me in!

    *ps... You're welcome! :)

    • 1 vote
    #1.2 - Mon Dec 27, 2010 12:24 PM EST
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    Justme-517872

    I've got friends from both ends of the spectrum and in between. With all of them at some point either they have liked what I was saying or vice versa. There are a lot of really great people on my list who can look past labels and stereotypes and carry on awesome discussions. I really enjoy those who are secure enough about themselves to be able to be friends with those with opposing views. I can be pretty opinionated at times but I have still managed to learn a lot from my friends!

    • 1 vote
    Reply#2 - Mon Dec 27, 2010 12:48 PM EST
    KYPIAKOC

    So true! What's the point of debating without the other side?

    • 2 votes
    #2.1 - Mon Dec 27, 2010 1:09 PM EST
    storyartist

    *Debates* are best entered into when both parties agree to debate.

    Many times several people are having a *discussion* when someone comes along and starts debating points, then criticizing the others for not wanting to hear opposing views. Most people originally in the discussion just disperse.

    While that viner fancies him/herself to be a debater, it's really just party-crashing, not debating. A good NV friend to me is someone respectful of the conversation already in progress. Among other things!

    • 8 votes
    #2.2 - Mon Dec 27, 2010 1:51 PM EST
    KYPIAKOC

    Excellent points storyartist. No one likes a partypooper:P

    • 4 votes
    #2.3 - Mon Dec 27, 2010 1:54 PM EST
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    etva

    I think a good Vine friend is like any good friend - someone who accepts you for who you are, regardless of politics, education level, or age. Some of my Vine friends I know better than others, but I enjoy getting to know all of them.

    I joined Newsvine for the diversity of the community. Our differences are what make us interesting, and I appreciate all the different perspectives presented.

    When I first joined NV, I noticed a Viner, whose posts were always difficult for me to interpret, but I felt like she had something important to say, if I could just translate it. I sent her a friend request, so I could follow her posts around the Vine - LOL. She's no longer a member here, but I think I learned the most from her comments.

    • 5 votes
    Reply#3 - Mon Dec 27, 2010 1:53 PM EST
    KYPIAKOC

    Absolutely! My favorite discussions are with those that don't agree, but are willing to explain why and listen to my point of view as well.

    • 4 votes
    #3.1 - Mon Dec 27, 2010 2:10 PM EST
    ERich-356044

    Only thing that can be frustrating.... I have had this happen to me a few times.... (not from you etva....)

    We agree to disagree, and I think (key word think) that we have found some mutual level of respect. Only the next day or two, a scathing article written about "Crazy biased liberals" or "Libtards" language coming from the very person I thought I had made progress with. It is as if they didn't listen, or just told me what I wanted to hear.... or just forgot everything we talked about.

    That is frustrating.

    • 6 votes
    #3.2 - Mon Dec 27, 2010 4:02 PM EST
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    POaksitwithastick

    I think a good Vine friend is like any good friend - someone who accepts you for who you are, regardless of politics, education level, or age.

    Totally agree! A good friend is patient and doesn't de-friend just because you disagree. Sometimes you'll find that you don't really disagree at all but because it's impossible to get tone or body language from the written word you may just be misunderstanding what your friend is trying to say.

    • 2 votes
    Reply#4 - Mon Dec 27, 2010 2:00 PM EST
    KYPIAKOC

    Sometimes you'll find that you don't really disagree at all but because it's impossible to get tone or body language from the written word you may just be misunderstanding what your friend is trying to say.

    Very interesting. Sometimes satire/sarcasm is obvious, sometimes not so much. A lot is left open to interpretation when we think what we said was obvious.

      #4.1 - Tue Dec 28, 2010 12:29 PM EST
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      henry1966

      Hmmm, I have way more women as friends than man on my list. What's wrong with me...lol

      Seriously, having something in common, a common hobby or interest, being on the same level of thinking, thinking alike, someone with respect, politeness, someone who doesn't only want my vote but also returns the favor, a sense of humor, someone who can think outside the box.

      Some mixture of that you will find on my friends list. I still check out people column's before accepting or sending a Friend Request. Has become a habit friend :)

      • 1 vote
      Reply#5 - Mon Dec 27, 2010 3:06 PM EST
      KYPIAKOC

      Very good comentary Henry. I always figured the overwhelming majority of Viners would have to be retired/semi-retired men, but now that you mention it, there are a lot more women writing and commenting on the sections of the Vine I enjoy most:)

      • 2 votes
      #5.1 - Mon Dec 27, 2010 3:23 PM EST
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      henry1966

      Pardon my typo of man instead of men.

      I love reading what each of my friends write on their own columns, and the feedback I receive from them on mine.

      I assume you mean the articles. BTW, I left something on your column. Took me 5 months to figure out where they appeared and what to do with them :)

        Reply#6 - Mon Dec 27, 2010 3:29 PM EST
        KYPIAKOC

        Not to worry, it would take volumes of space to correct all the online typos I've made. I did mean the article. I'l take a look and see if I can find what you left for me. Thanks!

          #6.1 - Mon Dec 27, 2010 3:45 PM EST
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          belove48

          I would classify most of my friends as fun. They make me smile, make me think, and write interesting articles and comments. I have friends to the left, right, and middle. We don't always have to agree but we can always find common ground somewhere. I think that's why I like the "not news" section so much. Almost everyone can have fun there.

          • 4 votes
          Reply#7 - Tue Dec 28, 2010 12:25 PM EST
          KYPIAKOC

          Agreed on all counts!

          • 1 vote
          #7.1 - Tue Dec 28, 2010 12:26 PM EST
          henry1966

          Have you found what I left on your column yet?

            #7.2 - Tue Dec 28, 2010 1:30 PM EST
            KYPIAKOC

            I checked the spot where it says comments and feedback. I guess that's not it, because it doesn't have anything. How do I access it?

              #7.3 - Tue Dec 28, 2010 2:59 PM EST
              henry1966

              Go to your column and click on " customize column". Then click on the tab comments and feedback and something should show waiting for your approval. Or not..

              • 2 votes
              #7.4 - Tue Dec 28, 2010 5:18 PM EST
              KYPIAKOC

              I just found it. Thanks for letting me know how, and of course thank you for the compliment!

              • 1 vote
              #7.5 - Tue Dec 28, 2010 5:21 PM EST
              henry1966

              You're welcome. I told you it took me five months to figure that out..lol. I check it every now and then because I don't think there's an alert for that. But then again, I could be wrong.

              • 1 vote
              #7.6 - Tue Dec 28, 2010 5:24 PM EST
              KYPIAKOC

              Very strange that there's no alert. I would think they'd at least use an e-mail notification like they do for friend requests. Thanks for pointing it out to me, or it would have likely taken me more than five months to realize there was anything there!

                #7.7 - Tue Dec 28, 2010 5:28 PM EST
                belove48

                K, I think they used to notify you via email.

                • 2 votes
                #7.8 - Tue Dec 28, 2010 5:37 PM EST
                KYPIAKOC

                Hmm, wonder why they stopped? While we're on the subject, does anyone know how to get out of a group. I honestly don't remember joining TODAY Moms, perhaps I was drunk at the time;) I'm sure it's a great group, but I'm not a mom, so I don't think I'd fit in that well

                • 1 vote
                #7.9 - Tue Dec 28, 2010 5:44 PM EST
                belove48

                Click on the group and then click on "leave group"

                • 2 votes
                #7.10 - Tue Dec 28, 2010 5:48 PM EST
                KYPIAKOC

                That's so simple, I feel kind of sheepish having asked. I guess because it's from the Today show they get to have a different format, I still can't find it, but I could get out of any of the groups I want to stay in!

                  #7.11 - Tue Dec 28, 2010 6:05 PM EST
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                  Vlad's dog

                  A like a person who will talk to me, as if I am sitting whith them at their table. I have alway shad friends who disagree with me on things, we talked to each other rather than at each other. That is what I look for in a vine friend.

                  • 4 votes
                  Reply#8 - Tue Dec 28, 2010 2:59 PM EST
                  KYPIAKOC

                  I really like that description. I enjoy the conversations that go back and forth for days at a time, even if it does get a little drawn out to anyone just observing:)

                  • 3 votes
                  #8.1 - Tue Dec 28, 2010 5:23 PM EST
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                  daMamma

                  I've friends from both sides of the political and gender divides as well as all over the age range. Mostly it is what they have to say on a given subject that has attracted my interest and desire to 'friend' them. I imagine it was the same for those that have 'friend-ed' me.

                  I may not always comment on a 'friend's' article or seeds, but I do read them very often as I find their thoughts and opinions interesting.

                  • 6 votes
                  Reply#9 - Wed Dec 29, 2010 12:43 PM EST
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